It’s exactly 58 days away until our wedding or as I tell my Mama…”it’s not a wedding, it’s an experience.” The day finally came.
My bridal shower…..and it was heavenly..
I’m not big on attention and weddings are the exact opposite. All of the attention is on the bride. So I’m working through this social intro-extrovert…-ism I have going on.
Planning this wedding is nothing short of stressful, just the details that go into planning is taxing but I must say I am enjoying the ride.
I’ll say I anticipated this day being surrounded by family and friends in celebration of the big day. I’ve also somewhat dreaded this day because of what I’d wear and what I’d look like in it.
I wanted everyone to look absolutely fabulous so it was a dresses and fascinators themed event.
It’s was a rough year with two pregnancies and two casearan’s. My body has done some things and unfairly, I have done some things to my body.
But that fear came and went and I decided my mommy heart was bigger than my tummy part!!
Take a peek….
****Photo credits of the food and decorations taken by my future cousin in law Keisha Carter.
#StillOnAHigh Lemme tell you I worked hard to get into an XL from my fav website for dresses which is the largest size they offer. Diet changes & exercise was/is a must. I had a C-section, got pregnant 3 months later then had another C-section all in ONE year. My doc was not happy with me but a woman’s body is f$cking amazing ……so yeah it was a rough year for me. I almost said I wasn’t gonna wear this dress bc of my tummy but shit ain’t nobody ehva said to me I love your tummy Jada….NOPE…. always I love YOU Jada… So mommy’s shout out to your tummy’s….if nobody else rub/loves it make sure you do!!