The last three years have been great, I have connected with other moms, made new friends, live and socially.

BUT.

There is always a but, how effective is my platform. I am always at a cross roads as to what content to post that will create a discussion. When you look at all the social media influencer pages everything is prim, proper, beautiful, even mystifying with bold pictures.

BUT.

At first, I truly blogged in hopes of gaining followers and being labeled as an “influencer.” Securing the bag and gaining popularity was high on the list.

But now that my kids are growing, I cannot help but notice the world and the times we live in. To be a great parent is to make your mark, set paths and examples and legacy for your kids. The ultimate goal: for them to have and be better than what you are.

We are living in horrible times with that demon and his inept wife as president, yes I said it, I have no sympathy for her either. Women have often been just as treacherous as their racist and bigoted counterparts.

Being a racist is becoming popular. Hatred is becoming popular. Violence is popular. And it could happen to anyone at anytime.

No racism has always been there. We’ve just never seen it’s ugly face displayed as often as we see on TV.

I loathe him and all that his administration and followers stand for.

There is no safety, no peace, no kindness, no compassion, no tolerance and lastly there is no GOD in this administration.

Haven’t you noticed?

I have worked very hard to get to the point where I have a true voice and at this point in my life and my career I have a responsibility to do what’s best for the world and not what is most popular.’ – Beyonce

At this point in my life, at 40, popularity isn’t even a goal for me. Change is. Doing what is mandatory for my kids to thrive in America. I want to use this platform to shed light on the good in the world but also the worst of it.

But first, VOTE them out of office. I’m with Maxine Waters, if you see them in public, let them know how you feel. After all they work for us, our voices.

The youth of today began this millennial movement for change with the March for Our Lives movement to change gun laws.

I am delighted young people are aware and involved. Watch out!

I hope you’re registered because voting, not just in the presidential election, but primary elections will change this presidency. Vote out the senators, state representatives and lawmakers that do not have our best interests at heart. You can register and check to see if your registration is still valid here it only takes 30 seconds.

Do you know her?

Her name is Nia Wilson.

Say it with me.

Say her name.

Nia Wilson.

If you haven’t heard of her please click here to be informed. She was the victim of a horrible white supremaciat stabbing attack that took her life and left her sister critically injured.

I mean what in the fuck is going on.

Being racist is becoming popular. Hatred is popular. Violence is popular. And it could happen to anyone at anytime.

Yes, even you.

We have loads of work to do. It’s cool to post your beauty hacks, dopest outfits and places and people you have seen. Enjoy life, really enjoy it. But can you really be at peace when another’s life doesn’t matter, isn’t fully capable or allowed to enjoy the liberties and freedoms of the world.

But don’t forget life outside those squares is real. I hope you are using your voice for change as well. We can’t be distracted by what only makes us feel good. We have to always be affected by that lump I our throats, the drops of our stomach and tearing eyes to stay connected to each other I this world .

It’s really simple, the solution that is.

LOVE.

I know it cliche but it’s the truth. Because within love you find, peace, hope, faith and ACTION. Love is all of those things but most of all, it’s a verb.

Love is action.

So I will be at rallies this year, protest, signing petitions, making donations and whatever it takes to make change happen.

But until then I will enjoy babies and my family in my lifetime and pray this world will be different for #dembabies

Blessings!!

xo,

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turning your hustle into a business

I am the last person on Earth to tell someone go and get a job.  I say Go and Build a job.  Over the weekend I attended a meet-up for Mompreneurs or aspiring entrepreneurs on marketing yourself and not being afraid of publicity. It was dynamic to say the least! Connecting and networking with some brilliant minded individuals that just need an extra push.

I’ve met so many wonderful, encouraging and inspiring women along this journey — it’s priceless.  We all want the same things regardless of color, to contribute to the legacy of our namesake and build for our family.  And hopefully,  empower others to go for it too.

So now what do you do?

Make money moooooooves… I love Cardi B!

I have been doing odd administrative jobs here and there for local businesses, family and friends. It never dawned on me to make that my official business until this year. I’ve heard from many entrepreneurs the best time to start a business is when you’re unemployed or fed up with what you’re doing. You have more time to invest into your venture. Broke but time to build your brand. I began writing for this blog to document my journey into motherhood but see it has turned into so much more. I’ve learned so much from strangers and advocates of black motherhood and parenting.

You have to have more than one stream of income, at least seven according to Warren Buffet, to achieve success, i.e. become rich. Not seven pop up shops but diversifying and dealing investments, mutual funds, acquiring property, and so on..

I am a creative and a true creative can dabble in just about most things artistically.  So I found myself thinking of businesses that I could brand later on.  I came up with four.  Crazy right? All with very little start up costs.

Let’s see there’s my blog, Love, Cotton + Curls…..(holla at me), there’s my virtual assistant services called CreateGo Studio where we assist homes, new Moms, Mompreneurs and small businesses with personal concierge service, adimistrative and operational support, then there’s my conscious t-shirt line for kids and finally to tickle my social entrepreneurialism there is She Laughs, my baby, a soulcial gathering of African American girls ages 5-14 celebrating pioneering women through arts + crafts, a different kind of girl talk!  Date to be announced so go follow please.

You know I don’t want to come across as the get rich quick lady.  But at the end of the day I’m rich, what’s wrong with that lol.   I used to let self doubt and other people’s opinions shape how I approach these ventures.  But why hide your talent?! Don’t keep it a secret, there is someone out there that needs your business.

I now know my capabilities and responsibilities to not only my family but my surrounding community.  That’s the key to life I believe…we’re here to help someone else.  My goal is to show that I will keep trying until I get it right.  I want my boys to see that anything is possible.  Especially with the internet at your hands, for now…..unless Congress blocks the net neutrality bill, ooops did I say that….

Anyway, with God and YouTube…. chile anything is possible.  I want them to know they don’t have to depend on anyone to give you anything.

Clark Atlanta University has a mantra of “Find a way, or make one!” I keep that mind, often!!

No excuses!

Can’t get any simpler than that, right?

So what’s holding you back, fear?  Afraid you might actually be pretty good at it?  Don’t listen to the naysayers or yourself for that matter. We have to live, speak and breathe positivity. A lot of times people don’t believe in your dream because you don’t. Don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with finding a career from 9-5 with benefits and steady income, the life right.

This post is for the dreamer, the risk taker, the fed up….yeah you!

You’d be surprised to find that everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.  I’m still learning this.  and each time I conquer fear it was the best decision ever time and time again.  If you fail, so what– keep trying, keep fighting and keep pushing and you my friend will have your own definition of a success in no time.

Find what you’re good at DO THAT!

And legalize it.

  1. Find a name for your business and visit your State Secretary website to make sure it is not taken.  Go ahead and use the name for emails and websites to secure no one else can use your name or domain.  If you live in the state of Georgia click here.

2. Work on creating your logo if you have not done so.  

3. Depending on the type of business and state secure a business license with your state.  

And brand it.

4.   Pick colors that you will use in your logo, assuming you have one, business cards and websites to create a consistent theme of your business.  People get used to seeing creative and captivating colors associated with your brand.

And market it.

5.  Scared money don’t make no money.  This is so true.  Do not be afraid to tell everyone about your business.  Market, market, market the hell out of it.  Set up social media accounts on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and LinkedIn to market your business.  This is the quickest and cheapest type of advertisement and marketing.

 

I love seeing other women connect and win. This is why I began my VA business– to help elevate and create space for other women to thrive and be.

Work hard for it and in due time….

Mo money, mo problems?

Do you have a side hustle you’ve always wanted to turn into a business?  What’s keeping you from that dream?

xo,

Jada

barefoot confessions || abundance 

It’s 4:20 and I am wide awake.  I’m up at this time normally with the baby, but it was slightly different this morning. 

Each day that I am able to place my feet on the ground is a blessing and relief. 

I’m not done yet!

To see new life, third and fourth chances at new beginnings is humbling.  

Abundance.  This is what I crave.

I am not a religiously devout worshipper, but I do know that there is a higher power guiding me through life.  

I church. I tithe. I pray.  I act.

I started this series to remind myself of what I am grateful for EVERY single day.  I have done this for the last few months and it’s an eye opener.  Complaining and disgruntledness is paralyzing.  I’ve learned that even the bad is good.  

My mission is abundance.

Not necessarily monetary, but joys, friendships, family, faith and love! I am thankful and filled with child-like faith, I believe in anything!  I believe wholeheartedly that gratitude is what allows abundance into my life.  So whatever I have or don’t, for that matter, I am GRATEFUL.

My life isn’t perfect but it sure isn’t what it used to be, hopeless! Life is intimate and delicate and should be treated as such.  

Overflow. 

So Lighten up and Great Morning!!

“Gratitude is the path to abundance” 

Love, Cotton & Curls